Life
I’ve been reading a lot lately about the impact that your mindset has on your attitude, your choices, and, ultimately, your life in general. We can either frame our thinking around love or fear.
Read MoreOh, hey.
It’s been a few months.
I thought I’d share an update on how things are going in my life. Lately, I’ve been trying to find a good balance between motherhood and work. It’s no lie that your entire life gets flipped upside down when you have a baby, and it’s sometimes hard to decide the best way to do everything.
These past few months have been a weird blur. I’m beyond blessed to be able to stay home with Ava and work from home, but it doesn’t come without challenges. We’ve gotten into somewhat of a routine (not a schedule exactly…I think having a strict schedule with a baby is, frankly, unrealistic.) When she goes down for a nap, I look at my list and decide what to try to get done in the next 30 minutes to an hour. (If she magically decides to take a 2-hour nap, I can get SO MUCH WORK finished, but I usually end up obsessively checking the baby monitor to make sure she’s okay…I’m sure other parents can relate haha) She’s been pretty good about going to sleep for the night around 7 for the past few months, so I usually try to work during the evenings too.
The days are going by slowly but quickly at the same time. (I’m sure if you’re a parent, especially a stay-at-home-parent, you understand what I mean!) Being a mom is such a weird thing. Some days seem to draaaag on forever and I feel like I didn’t get anything accomplished (which is never really true…just keeping a baby alive and happy is a huge accomplishment ;) )
I’m having to remind myself on a consistent basis that I can’t possibly do ALL THE THINGS. I want to do everything…I want to work as much as possible, work on side projects, take up new hobbies, hang out with friends, have a spotless house, make homemade meals every day, etc. etc. etc., but it’s simply not possible. Some days I barely get ANY work done. Some days my house looks like a train ran through it and we pick up Chick-fil-a for dinner. And some days I feel super accomplished, but I realize that I’m exhausted and haven’t taken a single moment just for myself all day. This is a season of life, and life won’t always be this way.
I’m trying to be present with Ava and soak up allllll the babyness that I can. She’s growing SO fast, and I don’t want to look back and feel that I was too caught up in everything else to pay attention to her and watch her grow.
Whatever season your life is in, take the time to enjoy the little moments and remember that it may not be this way forever.
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So…I had a baby! Meet Ava Rose Shannon! She was born on February 20th at 5:27 PM. She weighed 5 lb. 10 oz. and was 18 inches long.
Read MoreHappy New Year! I can’t believe it’s 2019!
2018 was a big year for me. I signed with an amazing art agent, got my first art licensing deal, sold some artwork to some pretty awesome companies, traveled to Canada and Hawaii, and got pregnant with our baby girl! I already know that 2019 will top 2018 because I’ll become a mom and learn to become a work-from-home mama. It’s such an exciting (and anxious) time!
My word for last year was “growth.” (Not gonna lie…I had to look up that blog post to remember what my word was…I didn’t do a great job of trying to apply it to my day-to-day life.) I definitely did grow last year, in my business, my relationships, even physically (have you seen my belly lately?! ;) )
For this year, I knew exactly what I want my mantra to be. I’ve been doing a lot of self-growth lately, reading lots of books and listening to lots of podcasts about how to be the best version of myself.
My word (or phrase, rather) for 2019 is “be present.” This phrase kept popping up everywhere I looked in the past few months, and I know that it’s something I need to strive for during this new year.
It started when I decided to really try to take control of my anxiety and stop letting my negative thoughts get in my way of being productive. My mind tends to be three steps ahead of where I currently am, always trying to figure out what needs to be done in the future. It’s always been hard for me to truly be present in whatever moment I’m in, even if it’s a relaxing, happy, or fun moment. I always catch myself thinking ahead. Does anyone else struggle with this? It’s so hard for me to truly be in the moment, but I desperately want to try in 2019. Having a baby is going to force me to be more present. I know that the only way to be a truly happy mom and raise a truly happy baby is for me to be fully engaged in whatever I’m doing at that specific moment.
I recently read an amazing book called Mindful Birthing by Nancy Bardacke, and it introduced me to the idea of mindfulness. Nancy defines mindfulness as “the awareness that arises from paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, and non-judgmentally.” It’s the practice of paying attention to all of your senses, being in whatever moment you’re in, and not judging your feelings, thoughts, and perceptions.
Obviously, this book is about getting through labor and birth while using mindful practices, but this mindset can (and I believe, should) be used in everyday life. I plan on reading more books about mindfulness and being present this year, and I’m excited to start doing some mindful meditations every day.
Basically, I just want to be able to slow down, breathe deeply, and be fully present in whatever moment I’m in. This goes for working, spending time with family, enjoying a vacation, even doing the dishes. Just paying full attention to the task or atmosphere that I’m in, and training my mind not to constantly wander to the future and what I need to do then.
I want to write about my journey throughout the year, and I’m going to hold myself accountable to this. I love getting my thoughts out, and I want to share more on this blog too.
So here’s to 2019! Let’s make this the best year yet!
I always claim I’m going to be more consistent with blogging, and it never happens. Oh well…I’ve been super busy over the past few months, so let’s just let it slide.
The huge news is that I announced on my social media a few weeks ago that we’re expecting a baby girl in March 2019!
We’re SO excited to welcome our baby girl into the world! I’m currently about 22 weeks pregnant, and the pregnancy has been great so far. I was pretty nauseous in the very beginning (as expected), but that tapered off, and I’ve felt pretty good up until now. I go through bouts where I’m extremely hungry or extremely tired, but I’ve been feeling pretty good overall!
We’ve had a couple of ultrasound and the baby looks good! She’s been moving a LOT lately, and I’ve even managed to get some videos of my stomach moving (I won’t share those here…that might be a little weird haha)
We have a couple of trips between now and my due date, and I’m excited for the holidays too. We’re going to Hawaii for Thanksgiving as a little “Babymoon” (I’m cringing while typing that. My sarcastic self can’t use the phrase “babymoon” in a serious way) and we’re heading back to Alabama to visit family for Christmas. After that, I’ll be past 31 weeks and we’ll probably be staying around here until the baby comes. We’ve been working on figuring out ideas for the nursery and trying to keep our baby registry as simple as possible. I don’t want to go crazy and buy ALL THE BABY THINGS, so I’m trying to be as minimal as I can.
As far as work goes, I’ve been working away at new collections for Surtex (which has been moved to February…which means I can’t go since I’ll be VERY pregnant then :( ) I’ll try to share some new work whenever I can. I’d like to work on some personal projects too (if I have time) so I’ll be sure to share those too.
That’s all for now!
