I don't think cute watermelon products will ever go out of style! They're so fun, bright, and summery (and they make me want to eat some watermelon ASAP.)Read More
It's good to be back in the USA. We got back on Sunday, but I'm just now getting over my jet lag. Sunday was literally a full day of travel..over 24 hours with a 13-hour layover in San Francisco. Needless to say, we were exhausted yesterday.Read More
I have the opposite of a green thumb...I always end up killing any plant I own, but I had a couple of succulents last year, and they actually lived for awhile. I think I want to make a cute little indoor succulent/cactus garden to strengthen my "gardening" skillz. I think that would be a fun little fall hobby.Read More
It's that time of the year again. Summer is ending, but it's not quite fall yet. However, in true basic girl fashion, I am BEYOND for that time of the year when it gets a little cooler, the leaves start to turn and pumpkin-spiced EVERYTHING is available.Read More
Okay. I'm about to open up on here and be very transparent. I know I'm not the only one who has this problem, and I think it's something that needs to be discussed.
We all do it. We watch TV, read certain blogs, scroll through social media, and begin to get that "blah" feeling. Like we're not good enough. Like there are all of these good-looking, talented, perfect people out there, and we're just...average.
I find myself feeling this way particularly when I see other artists creating amazing work. Of course I love just looking at beautiful design, and I feel happiness for the artist behind the work. However, I'll be perfectly honest...I also feel a bit of sheer panic.
Maybe I'm jealous of them and their talent. Maybe I feel like I'll never be as good as them. Maybe I feel like I'm never going to "make it" in this industry, and I feel embarrassment for even thinking I have the talent for it. Whatever the reasoning behind my panic is, it's not good for me or for those around me.
These are thoughts that I have almost every day. Some days I'm better at being confident in myself and my work. Other days I feel like I have absolutely no clue what I'm doing....in my career and in life in general. I'm not alone, right? (Please tell me I'm not alone!!)
Why do we compare ourselves to others so much? Why do we covet what others have, be it money, possessions, talent, etc. instead of being thankful for what we have? Why can't we just be happy for others, and live our own lives confidently and happy? It seems as though we all have this notion of the "perfect" life. And when we see someone who appears (note the word appears) to have that life, we feel inadequate. The thing is, we don't know what's going on behind-the-scenes in their life. They may look like they have it all together, but may also be struggling in some other area of their life.
This is a problem that I'm constantly trying to fix in my own life. I have to constantly remind myself that most of us only portray the good side of our lives on social media. That artist whose work is absolutely stunning? Maybe she has been working for years to find her own perfect style. That blogger who seems to have it all together? Maybe she never thought she'd end up where she is today, but she persevered and made it happen slowly over time. That mother who is always showing off adorable photos of her kids? Maybe she went through two miscarriages and years of grief and prayers before having those precious children.
Instead of looking at pretty Instagram photos at face-value, we need to remember that there is a story behind every single person. Everyone has their own struggles, temptations, triumphs, failures, and victories. Life isn't simple...it comes with all kinds of bumps along the way. There's no one specific way we are all called to live.
I started really thinking about this after listening to the most recent podcast from Kelly Rae Roberts. She mentioned the quote below, and it got me thinking about how comparing ourselves to others robs us of all our joy and peace. We are all in this thing together, and we shouldn't be so quick to make comparisons. So let's stop comparing ourselves to others, and live our lives as fully and as positively as we possibly can.